The Dead Have No Secrets

When we die, privacy for the most part goes out the window. As we live, privacy has gone out the window. Do you agree or disagree?

Have you noticed since 2020 that some of the things we used to hold as private no matter what, have now been opened up to be shown to the entire world? Have you noticed how our view of what is or is not private has changed based on the most current media propaganda? Take for instance healthcare or health status……we went from HIPPA protects everything to show me your papers or tell me your [insert latest media scare thing] status.

Have you also noticed that the farther we walk along our spiritual path, we realize the dead also have no secrets? And perhaps, some of the living should no longer have secrets? The lives of the dead are no longer private, (unless we think it will hurt or offend someone who is still living). Many family history researchers honor this idea of not revealing family secrets while it may hurt someone. It does beg the question…..at what point do we start telling the truth and secrets about the living as well as the dead?

If humanity chose to be honest about their choices, and tell their family stories with vulnerability, who might this help? How might we heal?

What if we stopped hiding the generations of pain and secrets? What generational patterns might we stop? What cycles might we end? Who might this benefit - the child who will not be abused any longer by the parent or collateral family member? The generations that come later who no longer have to carry the shame, anger, guilt, greif, sadness, or trauma of their parents and grandparents?

What if we talked openly about how we healed from what has happened in our lives? What if we spoke about our journey from abuse, pain, trauma through the healing cycle, to the other side to show people there are other ways to live?

What if our stories of pain and healing inspire others to heal or let them know they are not alone in what they are going through? To let people know there is a way out and freedom at the end?

Or do we keep the secrets of the living and the dead and hope they will magically go away and stop affecting our lives?

All of life is a choice. You can bury your head in the sand or ignore what is showing up but if you do - it will come back in a more dramatic, worse, traumatic, possibly disease filled way. Will that be more fun to experience? For some - yes, especially those who love to play victim.

If we bury our heads in the sand, do we continue to cause pain for our children, grandchildren, great grandchildren and so on…….?

Secrets are being uncovered globally, within countries, communities, families, and within ourselves. Maybe it's time we stop being so 'life is perfect' on social media and get real. Tell the stories. You never know what goes on behind closed doors or what someone is going through.

Maybe it's time for humanity to stop being so mean and abusive to each other and instead be LOVE. Be understanding and allowance. Maybe then we all heal. The dead have no secrets. Maybe the living shouldn’t either.

What do you think about this?